Faith and Belief

September 1st, 2010

by: Bruce Magnotti

Faith and belief are words that have lost their deep meaning in our language. This article is an attempt to regain some of that depth and understand why these concepts were so important to Jesus and the early followers.

Belief is a form of embracing the present moment, of what is arising in your life right now. The whole issue started back in the Garden of Eden. When Adam and Eve ate the fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, they truly died, as God said they would.

Sinai Desert, where the Hebrews spent 40 years wanderingAdam and Eve traded an abundant life in paradise for a life of seeking that which they desire and avoiding that which they judged as undesirable. Seeking the good and avoiding the evil. Their life become a ceaseless wandering, much like the forty years that the Hebrews spent in the wilderness, of avoiding that which they judged as undesirable, and seeking that which they judged as desirable. Never avoiding evil, and never satisfied with the good. When we embrace the present moment, regardless of these qualitative judgments, and we are grateful for the present as it is, we open the way for grace to operate. This is the action of belief.

Faith is a form of confidence: given that we embrace the present moment, we have full assurance that we will act appropriately to that which is arising in our life as circumstance. Our natural response will be virtuous and loving, compassionate and intelligent, because that is what we are.

Remember that Jesus never said that he was going to heal anyone, he either said, “…your sins are forgiven” (sin being missing the mark, not acting appropriately), or he said, “…your faith has made you whole”. Virtue then becomes the activity of flowing with the course and current of life and not struggling against it, trying to manipulate and change it.

Jean Pierre de CaussadeJean Pierre de Caussade, a 17th century French Catholic Priest, saw the essence of Christianity to be complete surrender to the “will of God”.  He wrote, “This is the true spirituality, which is valid for all times and for everyone. We cannot become truly good in a better, more marvelous, and yet easier way than by the simple means offered us by God: the ready acceptance of all that comes to us at each moment of our lives.”

So when Jesus asked in Luke 18:8 “…when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?” What he was asking was, “When I return will anyone be living in the present moment. Will anyone be living like Adam and Eve prior to their decision to defy God?” He was referring to the fact that he came to offer us a way to the tree of life that was denied Adam and Eve, he overcame death to prove this to us. The whole importance revolves around our surrender of the arrogance, the arrogance that we know what is good and what is evil.

I am now going to quote mystics outside of the Christian circle. Anyone that sees that as unprofitable should start to read the Bible and not trust what their church doctrines relate. Jesus said, in John 14:6 “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” He also stated in Matthew 15.24, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel.”

There have been, and still are, many virtuous and God seeking people all over the world. It is best to give up the arrogance that your way is the only way. This is exactly what leads to conflict and war. Jesus gave us a charge of delivering the “good news” – not some doctrine of fear and anger, guilt and shame. You would be very surprised at the impact Jesus has had on ALL the world religions.

Ramesh Balsekar, an Advaita Vedantist wrote:

“It should be clear by now that the problems by which the individual human considers himself beset are based in the belief that the opposites are supposed to be separated and kept apart, that the good and the beautiful must be sought to the absolute exclusion of all that is considered evil and ugly. Freedom from the pairs, is what freedom truly means. This freedom from pairs is the Kingdom of Heaven spoken of in the Bible, even though most exegetists seem to have forgotten it. Heaven is not the state of all positive virtues and rewards to the exclusion of all negatives, but the state of transcendence of both positive and negatives”.

The Bhagavad Gita:

“Content with getting what arrives of itself, passed beyond the pairs, free from envy (wanting things to be different than they are). Not attached to success or failure…”

In the Buddhist writings, the Lankavatara Sutra:

False imagination teaches that such things as light and shade, long and short, black and white, are different and are to be discriminated; but they are not independent of each other; they are only different aspects of the same thing; they are terms of relation, not of reality. Conditions of existence are not of a mutually exclusive character; in essence things are not two but one.”

Quantum mechanicsThe theory of quantum mechanics has all but demolished the notion of separated opposites, I won’t go into detail here but the discoveries of quantum physics will change the way people look at god, the world, and universe. In fact, the perspective we have of our world and our place in it derives from the model of the universe that classical physics, or the Newtonian model, purported as “laws”. These “laws” do not define the reality we live in as we once thought, and these quantum discoveries are as important as realizing the world is not flat.

Have you heard of the Gospel of Thomas? It is not in the Bible as it was discovered in 1945 in an ancient Egyptian Library. It is interesting in that it is the one “gospel” that the Catholics did not get to translate for us.

“Shall we then, being children, enter the Kingdom? Jesus answered, When you make the two one, and when you make the inner as the outer, and the outer as the inner, and the above as below, and when you make the male and female into a single one, then you shall enter the Kingdom.”

And from Matthew 6:34 (in your Bible), Jesus said, “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.” And “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 18:3-4

Our lives are in the present moment, regrets of the past and expectations of the future (for example) merely create stress in our lives, and conflict in the world. When we turn from dispersing our energy into the past and the future we find that we have gathered it up to focus on the present, what is arising on our lives right now.

Then our lives become more than a desire for the good things and an avoidance of the evil. We then start to truly live.

Social Networking and Spirituality

August 16th, 2010

by: Dan Shafer

Technology and Spirituality - can the two coexist?As a 30-year professional technologist and a lifelong student of spirituality, I am fascinated by the ways technology and spirituality intersect. I’ve been invited to share my thoughts on these subjects here periodically and I welcome the opportunity to do so.

I’ve been doing a lot of study of Facebook lately for my “day job” as a technology visionary for the Web development agency in which I am a partner. So naturally when I decided to write my first post on spirituality and technology, I gravitated to a piece on Facebook’s role and impact.

Facebook is an incredible phenomenon. It recently announced it had passed the 500 million mark in membership. Half a billion people have Facebook accounts. They use them for all kinds of communication with their circle of friends, people you invite or accept into your circle. It is by far the largest social networking site on the Internet. Chances are most of your friends are already on Facebook. Lest you think it is just for the younger set, the fastest-growing segment of the population joining Facebook these days is men and women aged 45-65.

Facebook icon and logoSo how do churches and spiritual leaders and teachers use Facebook? I was pretty surprised to find out how many really creative ideas our peers have come up with to leverage Facebook. Here are the primary ones and a few thoughts about each that might help you if you’re interested in building or broadening your ULC ministry.

Thousands (perhaps tens of thousands) of churches use Facebook as their primary or only online community gathering place. Many churches which used to host their own online forums have switched to Facebook, apparently on the theory of “going where the folks already are”. Many others have come later to the awareness of the value of these virtual gatherings and have more naturally begun their efforts on Facebook. In both cases, nurturing in the online world takes on a whole new dimension; not just ministers and leaders can help members of the community, but there is opportunity for a great deal of mutual member assistance. This, in turn, deepens a community’s connections to one another, which obviously provides an opportunity for deeper enrichment of everyone’s spiritual experience.

The interest on the part of churches in using Facebook as a community platform has resulted in the creation of one Facebook application called MyChurch that provides a format and a structure for such groups. The application is specifically tailored for Christian churches that accept the Nicene Creed, according to the company that offers the service for a wide range of monthly fees depending on size and feature set.

Facebook "like" or "friend" button An interesting variation on this online community approach is the use by many ministers and spiritual teachers of Facebook “feeds” as significant if not primary input to their prayer lists. Whether or not a church has a formal community presence on Facebook, if congregants “friend” their minister and the minister reads her congregants’ entries, an alert spiritual leader can become aware of problems and prayer needs — as well as reasons to rejoice — much more quickly and in greater detail than has generally been possible. (Of course, this benefit has a potential downside; I have read comments from some church-going folks who were somewhat surprised when their minister contacted them about a Facebook post. Even though they may have “Liked” the minister, they didn’t realize their comments were available, by default, to everyone in their list.

Another popular way churches have been using Facebook is as an advertising medium. Facebook advertising is remarkably affordable and, like advertising with Google AdWords, allows the church to set a daily maximum budget amount for ad spending. The real power of this advertising is the easily accessible ability to target the ad to the area and demographic that a particular church or ad campaign is likely to interest. It is easy, e.g., to focus an ad on people who live in a given city, fall between given ages, have a family status that matches your existing community’s and expresses interest in one or more topics.

Small Churches are gaining larger, more dedicated members through technology todayChurches have reported great success recruiting young families and children for summer “Vacation Bible Schools” and similar activities, and in drawing seniors to a study aimed principally at people in their Golden Years (named, my curmudgeonly late father often said, by someone who hadn’t actually lived through them) interested in medicine and/or ethics.

I’m sure there are lots of other ways churches, religion and spirituality are being evidenced on Facebook. If you have a good anecdote or insight to share on the subject, I hope you’ll pass it along to me.

Interestingly, ULC Monastery ministers have a fairly large showing on Facebook. I ran across several dozen ministers advertising their availability for spiritual ceremonies.

The ULC itself has four pages on Facebook:

(While I’m on this subject, you should know there is a Universal Life Church Ministries group on Facebook that is absolutely not connected to our beloved interfaith movement.  It is dedicated to fundamentalist Christianity and the King James Version of the Bible.)

Hitting the Reset Button

August 9th, 2010

by Neal F. Cox, Guest Blogger

The last true bastian of liberalism, Edward KennedyI am a liberal. I freely admit it. In fact, I will admit to being so liberal I could make Edward Kennedy look like a Ronald Reagan clone.

So if what I have to say offends you, simply because I’m liberal, I’m sorry, but at least have the decency to consider what I have to say.

I was born in the late 1950’s, too young to really understand the 60’s at the time, and a thoroughly committed product of the 70’s. The Civil Rights battles were already fought by the time I went to college. We were told, and we believed, that the old days of hating people because they were of a different color were behind us. Now, we did still have the battles over sexual orientation to wage, and gender identification, and all those other thorny issues that still plague us to a point today, but at least we knew that racism was dead. I’m not saying that you saw a lot of integration, but it was more than we had seen before, and that was a good thing, right?

Fast forward to today. I, the raging liberal, work for a rather large corporation. Define “rather large” as Fortune 50. I work in sales, and get to meet a lot of people every day. And, I can say with all honesty, that in the past 6 months, I have seen and heard more instances of racism than I can remember in my lifetime, including the 70’s. It is shocking, surprising, maddening, and saddening. I have heard the “N” word used by customers who think they are being funny, or actually expressing their feelings. I have seen racist cartoons and text messages on their phones, and felt their true hatred for those of a different color or nationality.

Midwest city at duskUnderstand, I don’t live in the middle of nowhere. I live, and work, in a major Midwestern city, with a long history of union support and liberalism. There is a large black population, Hispanic population, Asian population. It is diverse and alive. And yet, now in the twenty first century, the racism is alive and well.

In addition to the racial diversity, there is also a pagan population here, one that we are even now trying to identify and unify. There is a large and growing gay community and a wide range of religious belief, from traditional Christian to Muslim, to a large and visible Jewish population. Add in the Scientologists and other such groups and it all adds up to a city that should be a Mecca of diversity and acceptance.

But….experience tells me otherwise. The hatred seems so alive and so fresh. Something I have not encountered before. It is visceral and raw. The religious right seems to be the ones most in agreement with it. Conservative churches offer financial seminars and self help messages and close their doors to those who don’t look and think like them. They preach a “gospel” of intolerance toward those born outside our country, and seem to forget that we all, at some point in history, owe immigration to our existence here.

It bothers me, too, that if the intolerance and hatred is this obvious toward race, what must the attitude toward the more “hot button” issues be? But I only have to talk to even my co-workers to find that out. The attitude toward the gay community is one of absolute disdain. They tell jokes, insult each other by making gay references toward each other. Transgendered customers are smiled at, then ridiculed as soon as they leave. It is a culture and a dynamic that is far from accepting, loving, or even slightly concerned for the welfare and needs of genuine people.

Osama Bin Laden - fomenter of hatred around the globeWhat has happened since those idealistic days of the 70’s to bring us to this point? Where did we lose the battle for civility and acceptance? At what point did we move away from the principles of love and acceptance and opt instead for separation and hatred?

We can certainly blame some of it on a very loud minority. The most conservative religious movements scream and threaten and make so much noise that we lose any hope of civil discussion. Politically, recent administrations have controlled the nation by fear and false patriotism, creating an environment of suspicion and hatred. Corporations have come to control the political and social machinery of the country to the point that we are almost totally programmed by their advertising and propaganda. They control the process so completely that it’s hard to know where they end, and political identities begin. Everything is seen as needing a profit, and we are encouraged to look out for ourselves first and only. As long as we have money and a house and all of the things that they say we should have, we are told all is well. Forget the homeless, forget the poor, forget the sick, forget the person who asks only for an opportunity to prove himself. In the new America, none of those people matter.

Somewhere, we have to find the button that will allow us to reset our priorities and thoughts to the Civil Rights era. We need to again preach and scream from the mountaintops, from the churches, from the synagogues, from within the covens and every other place the need to put people above money. To put people above possessions, and above corporate policy.

It’s not really a liberal idea, even though I am still the liberal I was when I started writing this. It’s a human idea. It is the idea that fits best within every major religious system. It is the idea that will keep us from eventually destroying our planet and ourselves with out of control hatred and isolation.

Martin Luther King JrA great leader once preached a great sermon. “I Have a Dream” rang loudly and changed the world. Is there a button somewhere we can push to hear again those powerful and transforming words? Do we still have a dream of finding equality and happiness and hope for ALL of humankind? And if we do, are we willing to do the heavy lifting and hard work to overcome the decades of wandering away from that dream?

Find the button…..the reset button…..and press it until we see the change begin. Then press it again until we see the change become reality. Press it yet again until the next generation begins to take leadership. And give them the hope and courage to keep resetting until the journey is complete.

Homosexuality is Neither Sinful nor Immoral

August 6th, 2010

By Rev. Thaddeus Ping

Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender symbolI am writing a few words about homosexuality and why it is neither sinful nor immoral.

For the record I am completely heterosexual. I was raised as a Catholic, and in my younger years was much less educated and open minded. I was shocked but supportive when my best friend came out to me ten years ago. That’s when I started doing research on the topic. It is my intent with this article to dispel the myths surrounding homosexuality.

People try to claim that homosexuality is a choice and therefore homosexuals should simply choose to be straight. With a little bit of logic balanced with today’s scientific research it becomes painfully clear that this could not be further from the truth. Don’t you think that if homosexuality was a choice that gays, lesbians and transgender people would choose not to be picked on, ridiculed, and in some cases even assaulted?

It has been scientifically proven that homosexuality is not a choice. In a recent scientific study it was discovered that the brains of homosexual males have many structural similarities to the brains of heterosexual females; similarities which are not present in the brains of heterosexual males. There is also believed to be a connection between the hormones present a woman’s body during pregnancy and the sexual orientation of her child.

Some people also try to claim that homosexuality is unnatural. I ask these people to take a careful look at nature. Homosexuality and bisexuality is represented in every species – from man’s best friend the dog, to man’s closest relative the chimpanzee, to dolphins. Even some species that take lifelong mates such as parrots have same sex relationships. And to those people who claim that humans are not animals, I recommend that they take a basic biology course.

The Holy BibleWorst of all are those people who attempt to use The Bible to defend their hatred and as moral leverage in justifying taking basic human rights away from homosexual and bisexual people. If these people really dug deep and thought hard about their aversions they would realize that this simply cannot be done for two very important reasons.

  • We do not live in a theocracy; therefore The Bible should have no bearing on our laws. If you base your arguments solely on The Bible, you’re leaving out a rather hefty percentage: about 24% of the American population and a whopping 60% of the global population.
  • The Bible does not condemn homosexuality. Open up your Bible and follow along if you don’t believe me. I think you’ll be very surprised. The following are common Biblically based arguments against homosexuality and why they are completely invalid.

“God created one man and one woman,” aka “Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.”

This is absolutely true. However it has absolutely no bearing on the issue. Never mind the fact that God made man, the beasts, then woman and even made the beasts to serve in the same capacity as woman. By following this logic, bestiality is more pure in the eyes of God than heterosexual sex. (Genesis 2:18-23) I’m not saying I support bestiality, I’m just demonstrating how flimsy this argument is.

“God Destroyed Sodom for homosexuality”

The Bible never says anything about Sodom being destroyed for homosexuality, and if you actually read The Bible you’d see that the villagers didn’t want gay sex. They wanted to rape the foreigners and brutalize them in the most humiliating way possible. If they just wanted gay sex, the travelers could have said something like, “No we don’t get down like that.” and it would have been fine and the villagers would have left and just had gay sex with each other. But the villagers are clearly there in a threatening manner, and even threatened Lot with worse if he didn’t give them his guests. (Genesis 19:9)

But that doesn’t even rate in the top five reasons God gives in The Bible for Sodom being destroyed! (Ezekiel 16:49) Sodom was destroyed for its selfish pride, and for raping foreigners. So the word “sodomite” does not mean “gay.” It means “rapist.” Keep this in mind whenever you see the word “sodomite” in The Bible.

Leviticus“Leviticus says it is an Abomination.”

It does indeed. But Leviticus has all kinds of silly laws. for example: No round haircuts, no tattoos, no working on the Sabbath, no wearing clothing of mixed fabric, no eating pork, shellfish, or eagles, no playing with the skin of a pig, etc. The list goes on and on. To point to Leviticus and demand selective compliance is ridiculous. Never mind the fact that it says right there in Acts 15 that we gentiles do not have to follow those laws. (Acts 15:28-29)

“God clearly punishes homosexuality (Romans 1:26-27)”

This is nothing more than blatant, intentional deception. They deliberately leave off the first part of the passage so that the part they want to use can be put into whatever context they want! When you back up and read (Romans 1:21-25) it becomes clear the they were not being punished for homosexuality but rather for their participation in orgies in the worship of false gods in the celebration of ancient pagan rituals.

“1 Corinthians clearly says that gays will go to hell”

This one is a bit tricky and I can understand why it trips people up. I went to some experts and asked why this verse varies so greatly in different version of The Bible. The NIV translates the word used here as homosexual, but that wasn’t even a word until the late 1800’s and was added to The Bible in the 1900’s. Paul actually uses a made up Greek word that has also been translated as perverts, abusers of themselves with man, child molesters, and sexual deviants to list a few. Many times it is given two different definitions in the same Bible!  The word Paul uses is arsenokoitai. the prefix, arseno translates as male. The suffix koites means sexually active. (1 Timothy 1) also uses Paul’s made up word, and in some Bibles it refers only to prostitution.

Some people won’t even quote The Bible. Instead, they blather on about the sanctity of marriage. This, of course is complete nonsense. Marriage isn’t a religious thing. If that were the case, Atheists would never marry. As it stands if I wanted to, I could go up to the courthouse with a woman I love, or conversely a woman I hated, if I really wanted to, fill out some paperwork and be married. If we stuck to what marriage originally was, we’d only get married for political and financial reasons. Most of the time the couple would first meet a few days before the wedding, and the woman would become the property of the man! Is this really what they want? Never mind that originally, not only was polygamy legal, but it was commonplace and desired as a way to increase your standing, wealth and power in your community because of the ties they forged! Is this the sanctity they’re defending?

Britney SpearsOr is it the sanctity of Brittney Spears 55-hour-just-for-fun marriage? Same sex marriage does not in any way shape or form threaten the marriage of heterosexual couples. If they’re really concerned with the sanctity of marriage, why not worry about the fact that nearly 50% of marriages end in divorce?

Some will try to use the fact that gays can’t reproduce as evidence for their arguments. I fail to see how that has any bearing at all. Are they saying couples who can’t have children due to genetic or hormonal imbalance, deformation, or injury should be condemned to loveless, sexless and marriage-less lives? Does marriage suddenly end when a couple is no longer fertile? I think not.

Currently, only 5 states recognize same-sex marriage, and these same people who throw the bible and the laws of nature as the only way to live, are fighting to do away with these enacted laws. People should be ashamed of themselves but this is not the worst part of this travesty of justice. The worst part is that these people know they are taking away people’s basic human rights! They know what that they are fighting for is unconstitutional and yet, they think they’re doing a good deed! I would like now to direct you to one last
Bible verse. (Luke 17:34) I’ll let you read it for yourselves and decide what it means.

Divine Opportunity

August 3rd, 2010

By: Elaine Viets

Universal Life Church MonasteryIn 1976, I was ordained by the Universal Life Church for a dollar. I was a newspaper reporter and put the fee – er, offering – on my expense account.

I wanted to be a bishop, but the paper wouldn’t spend twenty-five bucks for that honor. Maybe they were afraid I’d outrank my editor.

In the eyes of the United States, my ministry was as legal as the Pope’s. Until this year, I only used my powers twice: I officiated at a couple of weddings for friends.

Meanwhile, I changed my life. I left the newspaper business and made my living killing people – on paper.

I am a mystery writer for Obsidian, a division of the Penguin Group in New York. I write two bestselling series, the Dead-End Job mysteries and the Josie Marcus Mystery Shopper mysteries.

Elaine Viets "Half Price Homicide"This spring, my character, Helen Hawthorne, married after nine novels in a mystery called “Half-Price Homicide.”

Here was a heaven-sent opportunity to promote my new Dead-End Job mystery: I would perform a wedding.

I started the Happily Ever After contest and pledged to marry one couple, straight or gay, anywhere in the continental US. I would fly to the ceremony at my expense.

My ad team chose Carl Nigro and Lia Hutton. They were perfect: smart, sweet and photogenic. It was a blessing that they lived in Washington, D.C. a two-and-a half-hour plane trip from my Fort Lauderdale home.

Their wedding was June 19.

I started the wedding contest as a lark, but Lia and Carl took their ceremony seriously.

“It’s not a formal wedding, but our ceremony has lots of personal meaning,” the bride said. “I’ll wear my mother’s wedding dress and my grandmother’s wedding ring. Our wedding cake will be made by a good friend who is also a baker. Another friend will provide the music.”

The wedding was supposed to take place at the landmark 1840s Carollton Inn in Baltimore.

Then, some two weeks before the wedding date, Lia’s grandfather became too ill to attend the Baltimore ceremony. Lia was no selfish bridezilla. She and Carl moved their ceremony to Columbia, Maryland, so her grandfather could attend.

Owen Brown Interfaith CenterInstead of the old inn, the wedding would be at the much newer Owen Brown Interfaith Center.

That’s when I changed. I quit making jokes about murder and marriage going hand in hand. I realized Carl and Lia were seriously in love. That’s how I was going to marry them – seriously.

On June 19, Carl and Lia stood before me in that Maryland garden. The bride wore her mother’s wedding dress. Carl had a dark tux.

Carl whispered to his bride, “You look beautiful.”

Lia said, “You look handsome.”

“Wow,” Carl said. “Just wow.”

I teared up. Are ministers supposed to cry? This one did. I started the ceremony in a wobbly voice: “Welcome, friends and family of Carl and Lia.”

Some thirty people gathered in the garden at the Owen Brown Interfaith Center. Lia’s 92-year-old grandfather sat in a wheelchair, smiling at his granddaughter.

The couple wanted a traditional service, including the dramatic question that has a key role in so many novels: Does anyone here know why this bride and groom should not be joined in marriage?

The old-fashioned vows had a polished beauty, like heirloom silver. First Lia, then Carl, promised “for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to honor, love and cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.”

The trend is to get rid of that “death do us part” section, but Carl and Lia didn’t hide from real life: they vowed love until death.

I blessed the rings as “an outward and visible sign of the unbroken circle of love.”

Then I said “by the authority vested in me as a minister in the state of Maryland I now pronounce you man and wife.”

Carl and Lia kissed as the guests applauded.  The garden erupted in a flurry of family, friends and flowers.

After the wedding, Lia’s grandfather went home for a special dinner and we drove to Baltimore’s Little Italy, a neighborhood with timeworn flat-fronted brick row houses. After more  pictures, the wedding party paraded down the sidewalk as cafe-goers cheered and cars honked.

The wedding feast for fifty was in an upstairs room at La Tavola Restaurant, owned by Chef Carlo Vignotto. Carl and Lia love good food. We ate delicious appetizers. A server carved whole striped bass and rockfish. There was chicken with lemon and capers. The handmade pasta was al dente, an achievement for a banquet.

Lia’s musician friend Pete played the guitar and sang his heart out. Children twirled on the dance floor and Lia danced with them.

There were heartfelt toasts. When the bride and groom weren’t greeting guests, they sat at a table with empty chairs, so their friends could talk to them.

At last, the wedding cake was rolled out, a magnificent lemon and raspberry confection made by another friend.

By ten-thirty, the cake had been cut, and what Carl called “the tossing stuff” was over. The garter and the bridal bouquet were carried off.  The bride and groom were surrounded by a flurry of well-wishers.

I went back to the hotel, feeling truly blessed.

Elaine Viets, ordained minister with the Universal Life Church MonasteryI’ve never understood why some religions refuse to give women this priestly power. Women judges perform weddings. In Florida, women notaries can marry couples. So why would some religions ban women ministers? We can’t do worse than the clergymen, who’ve left a trail of bloodshed, greed and carnality. I’m not saying we would do better, either. I don’t believe either gender has cornered the market on sin.

But we women deserve to know the solemn joy of celebrating weddings like Carl and Lia’s. The Universal Life Church Monastery gave me that privilege.

My characters, Helen and Phil, had a romantic beach wedding to begin their new life in “Half-Price Homicide.”

That was fiction. But Carl and Lia Nigro are real. It’s an honor to give their romance a  happy ending.

Faith

July 27th, 2010

By: Steven Friedman – Guest Bloggger

Star of David - symbol of Judaic faithI heard the anxiety in my mother’s voice when I announced some thirty years ago that I no longer believed in God.

“Maybe you should talk to someone,” she said.

I was 19 and a sophomore at the Jewish Theological Seminary and Columbia University. I’d grown up unquestioningly believing in God like my mother, her family, most of whom were quite religious, my father, his family, and my Hebrew school friends.

“Who?” I said, not surprised my Jewish mother was freaking out about her son’s sudden rejection of a God that comforted her daily.

“Someone at the Seminary,” she pleaded.

Rabbi Neil GilmanSo I made an appointment with Neil Gilman, who’d been my freshman Jewish philosophy professor and was the dean of the rabbinical school. He later went on the write a book that received a national Jewish book award, Sacred Fragments.

I explained to his secretary that I no longer believed in God and wanted to discuss theology with Dr. Gilman. I was nervous several days later as she escorted me into Gilman’s book-lined office. I was a gangly teenager who hadn’t yet taken most of my academic time seriously and he was a dean, a professor, a rabbi, a noted scholar.

“So what brings you here today?” Gilman asked.

“I’ve already explained it to your assistant.”

“I know, but I want to hear it from you,” he said.

“Well,” I stammered, “I’m not sure I believe in God anymore.”

He stood up, extended his hand, and said, “Welcome to the club.”

His comments calmed me and we then began a series of sessions for the next few months in which we discussed God, faith, and philosophy. Gilman’s main point that has stayed with me for more than 30 years was that belief and faith are on a spectrum. As he said then, “Sometimes we believe more and sometimes we doubt more.”

I haven’t wavered much from declaration of agnosticism, but faith has been on my mind lately because my wife has stage IV metastatic breast cancer and her oncologist said she might only have a few months left to live.

My wife has been on the healing list of two local synagogues since she was first diagnosed in 2006. My mother, who lives in Connecticut, enlisted the support of her rabbi and all the congregations in the Greater Hartford area to pray for Verna. We have countless friends and family beseeching the Heavens on a daily basis, and a woman I’ve never met in Indiana added us in the prayers of her church.

All these prayers reaching upward may or may not have the desired effect and slow my wife’s cancer and prolong her life, but they can’t hurt. My problem is I don’t have any faith or belief in the power of prayer or a Deity to hear those pleas, so I don’t ever take any time to offer anything on my own.

Rabbi Abraham Joshua HeschelThe Jewish philosopher Abraham Joshua Heschel, who marched for civil rights with Martin Luther King, said that people connect to God not through intellect, reason, or a leap of faith, but rather a leap of action, based on experience and sacred deeds.

But faith remains a powerful force for so many. Shortly after a hurricane ravaged Florida a few years ago, a relative said, “We were unharmed. God heard our prayers.” I couldn’t help thinking: did God ignore those of the people who were harmed? My wife and I lost a close friend several years to breast cancer. Did she die in part because she didn’t pray hard enough? And after a pain crisis a few weeks ago, my wife’s health has rebounded somewhat, leading another relative to take credit.

“It was because I had faith and prayed,” she told me.

Is that how God works? The Old Testament God certainly worked through history. We have the parting of the sea, fire and brimstone on Mt. Sinai, Noah and the flood, and the Garden of Eden. But that version of God was most likely developed over a period of many years by various communities and editors with a particular vision and perception of a Deity.

On the other hand, I find it profoundly powerful that hundreds of people are marshaling prayers to heal my wife. I can clearly imagine a rush of prayerful energy finding its way across rivers, valleys, ocean, and out into the universe. That is very comforting to us.

But I can’t yet participate in those prayers in any meaningful way. I am still muddling through to form my own spiritual connection to the world. I am a seeker who is open to wonder.

Welcome to the club.

Are There Dangers to Being Spiritual?

July 21st, 2010

By Scott Bishop

Being spiritual does not necessarily mean being religiousIn a recent CNN article by John Blake titled “Are there dangers in being spiritual but not religious?” John referred to a survey that stated more “millenials”, (people between the ages of 18 and 29 years old), identify themselves as being “spiritual” rather than “religious”. He describes it as trendy phrase people use to describe their beliefs. There is even an acronym for the phrase SBNR.

Okay, I’m more of a “tweener” myself having been born in the 60′s, but if I were asked about my religious views, my response would be the same…”I’m spiritual but not religious”. I have a tremendous connection to spirit and the divine, but I am not affiliated with any particular religious organization.

Now, I can understand why some of the religious pundits feel the way that they do, but to refer to the growing trend of SBNR as dangerous? Don’t you think that statement is just a bit melodramatic?

AngelOrganized religion is in a battle for its very existence. While people continue to the leave the church and new memberships are down, scandal and deceit continue to flood the headlines and haunt the hierarchy. Atrocities committed in the name of religion by inbred fanatics have worn down the resolve of many generations. Is it any wonder why people are thinking for themselves and disassociating from these organizations?

The very definition of spirituality is changing. No longer is the path to spiritual growth being considered to be through an organization with a facilitator that will speak to God for them. Spiritual people have come to the conclusion that the dogmas associated with organized religion and the “my way or the highway” mentality doesn’t serve anyone. They realize that God-fearing needs to be replaced with God-loving; that God is not a distant deity that resides “up there”, but that God is… and God’s love is… within all of us. Spiritually minded people are taking responsibility for their awakening and developing their own personal relationship based on all-inclusive love of humanity and spirit.

Is this dangerous? Some people think so. They claim that SBNR people are selfish, egotistical and just plain lazy. That “being spiritual” but not religious can lead to being complacent and self-centered while at the same time damaging the community at large. Their point is that SBNR people have no connection with their community so “why help the poor”.

SBNR individuals as a whole, care deeply about their communities, their environment and the damage that humanity has propagated on their fellow man and the planet. They are developing a very personal connection with spirit and God and have studied tirelessly on the subject and continue to grow, all the while maintaining an open mind that allows others to embrace their views without verbal or physical persecution.

Spirituality without religion is a growing forceAll around the world, old structures, financial institution, corporations and governments are being dissolved and dismantled. The energy of the times is pulling away the veil to expose the abominations that have been committed. Organized religion has had their shot over thousands of years to spiritually evolve this planet and failed, the true meanings and teachings have been lost in a struggle for power, money and control. Tell me…where does the real danger lie?

Raising Your Vibration

July 13th, 2010

By: Wendy Rae – Guest ULC Monastery Blogger

You Are Energy

Our personal energy reaching out to the universeDid you know that your well-being vibrates and communicates to the universe and others in an invisible and undetected way?  While raising your vibration has become somewhat of a new, coined phrase, there is a lot of truth behind the concept of raising your vibration.

Everything is energy.  Your emotions, your surroundings, your foods, your clothing, and even your home have an energy that you are in relation to.  This energy is your vibration.

Your vibration is your well-being.  Your emotional, spiritual, and physical states mold your vibration and communicate to the universe and others who you are.  Every thought that passes through your mind, all the foods and nourishment you give your physical body, every meditation and prayer that you give, every emotion that passes through you, these all communicate to the universe and others who you are.

The universe and others unconsciously align to your vibration and work with what you are communicating.

Why Raise Your Vibration?

VibrationsWhen you are stuck in a line of negative thinking and being, you are communicating that you are negative.  When you are aligned in a positive frame of mind, body and soul, you are communicating that you are positive.  Have you ever met someone that you just instantly did not like, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why?  These types of instances are a perfect example of vibration compatibility.  When you are thinking negatively, you will be more compatible with negativity.  The same is true for positivity.  When you are grounded in a more positive frame, you will be more compatible with positive happenings.  Someone who is vibrating in a positive way will not respond in kind to a negative vibration.

Who wants to be in compatibility with negativity?  No one!  Yet there are plenty of people we all know that remain in this pattern of negativity and believe they are victims of terrible circumstances.

Benefits of Raising Vibrations

The benefits of raising your vibration can be unmeasurable.  Some of the benefits include:

  • Feeling Grounded & Centered
  • Feeling Healthy
  • Communicating Clearly & Honestly
  • Having Increased Energy
  • Spontaneous Healing from Illness
  • Attracting Better Circumstances
  • Attracting Better People
  • Feeling Grateful
  • Feeling a Balanced Sense of Well-Being
  • Feeling Appreciated and Appreciating Others
  • Opening Further Intuitive Abilities
  • Opening Further Healing Abilities
  • Being More Creative
  • Being More Productive
  • Increase of Patience & Understanding
  • Increase of True Compassion
  • Negativity Will Fall Away
  • Negative People Will Fall Away
  • Increased Joy & Playfulness
  • Increased Faith
  • Increased Awareness
  • Ability to Experience Unconditional Love
  • Ability of Forgiveness

As you can see, the benefits of raising your vibration can be astronomical.  The great news about your vibration and energy levels is that you are completely in control of them.  Anyone can lift their vibration from where it currently is.

Ways to Raise Your Vibration

The ways to raise your vibration are plentiful.  Because your vibration is an accumulated energy, communicated from each aspect of your being – body, mind and soul, it is important to be aware that you can raise your vibrations in all of these aspects of being.

Raising Mind Vibrations:

  1. Stay Aware of Your Thoughts:  By staying aware of your thoughts you can stop negative and unwanted thoughts from playing out and communicating negativity to your energy.  Being vigilant of your thoughts and stopping negative thought patterns will dramatically increase your vibration.
  2. Think Positively:  By thinking positively, you allow the silver lining in every cloud to make itself known to you.  There are always good things that come with bad.  The trick is to stay positive and open minded enough to notice them.
  3. Keep Learning:  By continuing your education through books, workshops, and seminars, you allow your mind to keep busy processing new information.  Who has time to be negative when you are consistently learning and feeding your mind?

Raising Soul Vibrations

MeditationYour soul and spirit are the easiest aspects of the body, mind, spirit bodies to raise vibrationally.

  1. Meditation:  Meditation is by far the easiest way to raise your spiritual vibration.  Meditation is like a battery re-charging station for the spirit.  It helps clear your mind, your emotions, and even your body of physical aches.
  2. Prayer:  Praying for another is a great way to raise your spirit’s vibration.
  3. Participating in Energy Work:  Reiki, Pranic Energy, and Quantum Touch are methods of direct vibration rising.  Whether done for yourself or others, energy work is just as effective as meditation and can be used in conjunction with meditation.

Raising Physical Vibrations

Raising the physical body vibration is the most commonly overlooked aspect in people who are highly spiritual.  Unfortunately, our world does not support having a high physical vibration.  Our medicines, once natural and earth given, are now manufactured and sterile of the life-giving, sacred energy we crave.  Physical vibrations are easy to raise, but require consistent conscientious choices.

  1. Exercise:  Moving your body – your God-given tool of existence, will keep your parts in motion and prevent stagnation.  Stagnation allows  illness to develop.  Without energy moving through the body, the body’s vibrational aura is dull and lifeless.  Dance, yoga, walking, low impact cardiovascular, & sports are all wonderful ways to keep your body moving to prevent stagnation.
  2. Eating Organic:  While eating organic has been a topic of debate for quite some time, it has been clearly proven in many independent, scientific studies that pesticides have been linked to cancers, ADHD, mental illnesses, and renal failures.
  3. Eating Raw:  Eating a dose of raw, organic foods is like eating from God’s garden.  Pure energy in raw fruits and vegetables will raise your vibration tremendously.
  4. Choosing Healthy:  Sometimes there are just no great options available.  In our world of fast food and the hurry ups, it is important to make each little choice count.  Choosing ice tea over soda will absolutely affect your vibration and energy levels.  Choosing a chicken salad over a burger will also matter.

Raising your vibration doesn’t need to be difficult.  You know the areas in which you can do better, choose better, and be better.  If you want better, it is up to you to be it.

If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”  ~Anthony Robbins

“Drill Baby Drill” by Jack Mosley

July 9th, 2010

Jack MosleyJack Mosley, songwriter, entertainer and one of the best “TropRock” artists in America, has released his newest song, “Drill Baby Drill”, in response to the devastating oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico.  When thinking about ways in which he could help, Mosley decided to produce a video for “Drill Baby Drill”, showcasing the devastating effects that this man-made disaster continues to have on Gulf Coast communities, beaches, wildlife and ecosystems.

It is crucial that the pain and suffering of residents, the destruction of habitats and recreational beaches, and the mounting deaths of wildlife remain in the consciousness of today’s decision makers, media and general public.

“The mentality and hubris behind BP and all companies involved in this mess – drill at any cost – is unbelievable! They don’t care about us, the oyster beds, the fishermen and their families and the thousands of other ecosystems that are affected by their mistakes. It’s just the bottom line for them and they’re willing to take short-cuts to get that bottom line fatter. I grew up that area playing on those beaches – this goes back to my beginnings. That’s why I had to write this song.”

Drill Baby Drill – Jack Mosley from ULC Monastery on Vimeo.

In keeping with his life-long convictions, Jack Mosley will be dedicating all proceeds from the sale of his new CD, “Heading South”, to the National Wildlife Federation who have promised that 100% of donations will go directly to wildlife rehabilitation, without the imposition of administrative costs.

“This makes me sick to my stomach” Jack went on to say. “I have an engineering background and why they didn’t have a simple auto-shutoff system in place that kicks in immediately when the power to the rig is lost is beyond me! … It’s just common sense and good business but these guys don’t care! It’s all about the money – they don’t give a damn about us!”

To date, the Gulf oil well disaster has:

  • Spilled 60,000 barrels, or 2.5 million gallons of oil, EACH DAY into the Gulf of Mexico – as of June 30th, 2010 equates to over 140 million gallons
  • Killed 11 workers due to the explosion on the off-shore rig
  • Killed hundreds of thousands of organisms – flora and fauna.  This number will rise to the millions before this is over
  • Created a new wave of unemployment – 16,000 unemployed in Louisiana alone – as a direct result of the spill which has shut down fishing, tourism and other businesses

These statistics are just the tip of the iceberg…

The Universal Life Church Monastery is proud to be involved in the effort to help Jack get the word out, by producing the video for “Drill Baby Drill” for the internet. We are honored to be a part of Jack Mosley’s vision and to do our part to help – by doing that which is right!

You can purchase or download Jack’s new album at CD Baby, iTunes, or any other CD Baby distribution partners.

Krishnamurti and Present Moment Awareness

June 25th, 2010

Jiddu KrishnamurtiIn 1911 The Order of the Eastern Star was founded to proclaim the coming of the World Teacher that had been sought by the Theosophical Society. In 1912 Krishnamurti, who had been born in 1895 into a modest Brahmin home in India, was made head of this order. In 1909 Krishnamurti’s father arranged with Annie Besant, the president of the International Theosophical Society, to work for that organization in Madras, India. This is where Krishnamurti was discovered by Annie Besant and a deep bond formed between them.

In 1929 Krishanmurti disbanded the organization at the annual Star Gathering at his castle in Holland with a radical address “Truth is a Pathless Land”. In doing so, Krishnamurti rejected the guru status, estates, money, power, and all claims to authority. He spent the rest of his life, until 1986, as an obscure teacher, traveling throughout the world with his message of radical self inquiry and present moment awareness. As such, Krishnamurti embodied the Taoist concept of “cloaking the light”, a concept that affirms that the greatest of sages are not known as such, and infers that the ones that are well known are not the greatest of sages.

Most of the writings of Krishnamurti are actually transcripts of the talks he gave throughout his lifetime in Europe, India, the United States, South America, Australia, and New Zealand.

It is difficult to separate the concepts of radical self inquiry and present moment awareness, but this article will focus on the latter from the perspective of this great teacher.

The best way to present the concept of present moment awareness is with an example. Examples are difficult as readers tend to focus on the example rather than the concept itself. However, it may be the only way to accurately project the concepts. Using anger and violence as an example of an expression, though you can substitute greed, envy, and dozens of other expressions to generalize the concept.

When one is angry and violent, they may say or think, “I am angry”. From the perspective of radical self inquiry, this statement is actually a step away from the expression and a step away from the awareness of this expression in the present moment. The actual fact is that “I am anger” as anger is an abstract concept and without the expression does not exist. If “I” was not anger, anger would not exist in the world at that moment and in that place.

Often when one is angry, the expression is violence. According to Krishnamurti, violence is broadly interpreted: “Violence is not merely killing another. It is violence when we use a sharp word, when we make a gesture to brush away a person, when we obey because there is fear. Violence is much more subtle, much deeper… When you call yourself a Christian or a European, or anything else, you are being violent. Do you see why it is violent? Because you are separating yourself from the rest of mankind.”

When anger and violence is experienced and expressed, many think, “I should not be angry”. This is the second step away from reality and the present moment awareness. We are condemning the expression, the experience we are engulfed in. Often this results in a compulsion to self improvement, anger management and other compensations.

Or the thought, “I have a right to be angry”. Which again is a further step from the actual fact of experience and expression. This is a justification of the anger and violence, again an escape and separation from the actual present moment reality.

According to Krishnamurti and radical self inquiry, “Can you look at anger as if it were something by itself? Can you look at it completely objectively, which means neither defending it nor condemning it?”

According to radical self inquiry, anger and violence must be understood and this comes only when we remain in the present moment with that anger and violence which we are experiencing and expressing. Again Krishnamurti writes, “But to be beyond violence I cannot suppress it, I cannot deny it, I cannot say, ‘Well, it is a part of me and that’s that,’ or ‘I don’t want it.’ I have to look at it, I have to study it, I must become very intimate with it and I cannot become intimate with it if I condemn it or justify it.”

In the process of conditioning and personality development we are taught very subtle and strategic ways to escape from these aspects of our self which we tend to condemn or justify. Some of these subtle escapes are listed below, again using anger and violence as an example.

  1. Justification:  I have good reason to be angry. I can unleash my anger when I or loved ones are threatened.
  2. Condemnation:  I should not be angry. Anger is a sin I must seek forgiveness for.
  3. Identification:  I am an angry person. Human nature is violent.
  4. Extrapolation:  I have learned angry responses, it is a strategy to cope with a violent world.

Each of these strategies separate us from the anger and violence, thereby preventing the intimacy and understanding that Krishnamurti and radical self inquiry represent. Each of these strategies require effort and volition and are a distraction of our energy in the present moment.

One of the final steps away from the expression and experience is called idealization. We create a fictitious ideal and strive toward that, without knowing that we are becoming so far away from insight and understanding in the process.

In his discussion Krishnamurti affirms that violence is a “thing” nonviolence is a “nonthing”. “Some of us, in order to rid ourselves of violence, have used a concept, an ideal called nonviolence, and we think by having an ideal of the opposite to violence, nonviolence, we can get rid of the fact, the actual – but we cannot.”

“If you want to understand the actual you must give your whole attention, all your energy to it. That attention and energy are distracted when you create a fictitious, ideal world. To investigate the fact of your own anger you must pass no judgment on it, for the moment you conceive of its opposite you condemn it and, therefore, you cannot see it as it is. To live completely, fully, in the moment is to live with what is, the actual, without any sense of condemnation or justification – then you understand it so totally that you are finished with it. When you see clearly the problem is solved.”

If you are thinking, that is too simple, you are not alone. Krishnamurti actually referred to the simplicity of his message and predicted that many would reject it as too simple, as it is not another “method” or practice. In fact it is the opposite.

EnlightenmentEnlightenment, enhanced consciousness, present moment awareness is our natural state of being. We struggle through effort and volition to avoid our own natural state of enlightenment and meditative thought. When one presents us with that which we must learn or practice in order to “become” enlightened, we are happy as we are conditioned by our culture to believe that we need to exert effort toward spiritual “pursuits”.

Nothing could be further from truth. We struggle drowsed and impotent under the spell of this conditioning with it inherent unconscious processing. Relaxing this effort and volition is the key to entering into the states of enhanced awareness and meditation.

Krishnamurti bids us to relax into our experience and stop the struggle and ceaseless effort to avoid the present moment reality. We have learned a host of strategies to avoid the present moment. The more we understand these and observe the way we express them, the less unconscious they tend to be. The more consciousness, the less unconscious processing that occurs. The less unconscious processing that occurs, the more observant and aware we really are.

Strategies and processes to avoid the present moment by distracting energy into the future:

  1. Expectation
  2. Ideals
  3. Goals
  4. Dreams
  5. Beliefs
  6. Hope
  7. Intentions

Strategies and processes to avoid the present moment by distracting energy into the past:

  1. Regret
  2. Resentment
  3. Knowledge
  4. Prior experience
  5. Past trauma relived
  6. Remorse

Woman exhibiting tradition and cultural valuesAs you can see, some of these strategies are revered by our cultural values, some are not. Often we evolve as a culture and relabel these strategies. For example, most of us know that being in a situation and having expectations may cause frustration and suffering if these expectations are not met. However, at the same time we set intentions for ourselves and believe that to be a spiritual or “co-creative” venture. Perhaps intention is different from expectation, however, both are strategies to distract from present moment awareness.

In future articles we will further explore some of these strategies in relationship to the precious energy which is our life, the Chi.

In summary, Krishnamurti encourages us to relax and relinquish the various escapes that prevent our present moment awareness. He affirms that this is the only way to become intimate with our experience to enhance understanding and insight. This way requires less and less effort and involves greater and greater awareness, leading us to that present moment awareness that provides us with the focus of all our energy on life in the now.

Bruce Magnotti, Seattle, June 2010

All quotes from the book “Total Freedom” by Jeddu Krishnamurti, specifically from the article “Freedom from the Known”, pages 109 – 133.